Psychology determines the child's future upbringing
Modern children, due to the rapid development of science and technology and social economy since modern China, the human cultural life learning environment can be greatly improved, the living and working conditions are also greatly improved, and the children of many families are also greatly increased in their own internal fragility, which has caused a lot of The problem of socialism. Perhaps the difficulty of raising a child does not start in the present, it is the same in any era, but from the perspective of actual needs, the difficulty of the era is different from the past. For children who lack theoretical confidence, many educated children are superficially normal, but the actual management lacks institutional confidence, whether in schoolwork, athletic ability, or through interpersonal relationships, when they encounter setbacks, they are depressed and cringe, no longer moving forward, neither The will to work hard towards the goal has no intention to compete with others to win.
Many people feel the phenomenon: Children seem to be unaware of their current potential, and do not know what the next goal is. In short, today’s children’s sudden adulthood efforts after growing up seem to be a very difficult thing. Cultivating children’s self-confidence, parents’ education from a childhood is a critical attitude, a huge impact on future children will experience accumulation since childhood, the importance of parent’s attitude is self-evident, such as giving children self-confidence , The ability to raise a child, or the safety of taking a child, etc., but the most important thing is to make every effort to find out whether the child can do better or better, and then help him progress.
There is a personal cultural difference in the growth of a child. Parents, we must build a child who trusts the student and gives him what he really needs. The rest does not need to do more comparisons with others, or excessively worry about his technical development in a certain area. Fast or too slow. Books are a part of life. Teach children to carry out the real social economic environment of the society. During the healthy growth of children, there must be no utopia without Chinese realistic values ??and market competition. Parent education should be to pass the correct concept to the children. Perhaps parents think I really want to escape the harsh world and want to move away from the unreasonable reality, but children can't grow up in such a virtual network world. If you do not really care for children, you must understand this.
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